The hot wire in the harness did not work, and I saw online where most people have had to run a hot wire in conjunction with using it.
It ended up being a fuse in the back that was blown and then when he checked the front fuses he didn't realize he did NOT need to unscrew to bolts to the fuse box to open it.
So... once he tightened those down and we rechecked the fuses all was just fine.
thanks for a reply. I am a little disappointed in how long it took for someone to say anything though.... Even just to say someone was thinking on it.... or an IDK...